Lulette Danger

Lulette Danger

Pasadena Trauma Therapist

Pronouns: She/Her/Hers

Trauma affects both the mind and body, leaving behind intrusive thoughts, distressing sensations, and confusing reactions. At the core of many trauma responses is shame—the deep-seated belief that something about us is inherently wrong or unfixable. These beliefs often stem from early experiences and are reinforced by society, shaping how we see ourselves long after the initial wounds occur. Even when those experiences fade from memory, their impact lingers in how we navigate relationships, emotions, and self-worth.

In therapy, I take a collaborative, client-led approach, recognizing that each person is made up of different parts—some we embrace and others we struggle with. However, every part has developed for a reason, playing a role in survival. Rather than rejecting or hiding these aspects of ourselves, healing begins when we explore them with curiosity and compassion. My work integrates trauma-focused ACT, Internal Family Systems (IFS), existential psychotherapy, Brainspotting, and EMDR to help clients process their past, uncover internal strengths, and move toward living in alignment with their values.

As a queer cis woman, I have a special passion for working with queer, trans, and gender-nonconforming individuals, understanding the unique challenges of trauma within these identities, including marginalization and systemic discrimination. I also work with individuals healing from issues related to PTSD, complex trauma, trafficking, dissociative disorders, anxiety, and depression. My practice is rooted in cultural humility and affirming care, providing a safe space for clients to explore their experiences without fear of judgment. Whether you are navigating gender identity, recovering from complex trauma, or seeking deeper meaning beyond the burdens of the past, I am here to walk alongside you in your healing journey.

All modalities are very effective in treating traumas.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a form of psychotherapy that has been successful in helping people who suffer from trauma, anxiety, panic, disturbing memories, nightmares, etc. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or tapping) while the client attends to memories and triggers to decrease or eliminate emotional distress connected to the memory.

The realization that even the parts of ourselves that cause us the most distress, disturbance, and guilt have a positive and protective intention quickly begins to foster increased self-compassion and reduce shame. From a parts perspective, these parts have been forced into extreme (burdened) roles as the result of traumatic experiences and in their roles, make every attempt to protect us from being harmed again. Embracing the protective function and positive intention of our parts offers a new understanding of our current circumstances and ways in which we can begin to promote self-led change.

The overall goal of parts work is to unburden these “protector” parts from their extreme roles, heal the “exiled” parts (the parts of us that have experienced trauma), and offer all parts the opportunity to choose new and more adaptive ways of functioning. Parts work is a non-pathologizing modality, meaning that it addresses symptoms and many mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression, substance use, eating disorders, and more as parts that are attempting to protect us rather than labeling them as a one-size-fits-all diagnosis.

When addressing dissociative disorders such as OSDD and DID, I use the Phase Oriented Treatment of Structural Dissociation model. Dissociative disorder treatment involves communication and collaboration, both within the system and the therapeutic relationship.

With the knowledge that every system is highly unique, I use the phase-oriented approach as a general guideline to treatment while focusing on collaborative treatment planning by hearing the wants, goals, fears, and needs of each part of the system.

Brainspotting is a somatic therapy that helps clients access the subcortical (non-verbal) part of the brain, where trauma is typically stored. According to the creator of Brainspotting, David Grand, “Where you look affects how you feel.” Since our eyes give us access to the subcortical brain, Brainspotting uses the visual field as a way to help release stored memories.

Additional Trainings
  • EMDR Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing
    • Michelle Gottlieb, PsyD, MFT, LPCC
    • Curtis Rouanzin, PhD
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Informed
    • Richard C. Schwartz, PhD
  • Survivors of Domestic & Intimate Partner Violence
    • Susan Holt PsyD
  • Kink Affirming Care
    • Ferris Oxide
  • Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
    • Alex Blake, AMFT
  • Bisexuality: Not Queer Enough
    • Rebecca Haws, AMFT
  • Competent, Affirming Practice with Older Lesbian and Gay Adults
    • American Psychological Association
    • Jennifer Hillman, PsyD & Gregory Hinrichsen, LMFT
  • Affirmative Care with Transgender / Gender Diverse Youth
    • American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
    • Daran Shipman, LMFT
  • ASAM Modules I & II      
    • The Change Companies
    • Alyssa A. Forcehimes, PhD
  • Brainspotting Level 1
  • University of the West – Master of Arts in Psychology, Marriage & Family Therapy
  • San Francisco State University – Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy
  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)

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