Lulette Danger

Lulette Danger

Pasadena Trauma Therapist

Pronouns: She/Her/Hers

We all contain many different parts of self—some that are confident and capable, and others that hold fear, anger, shame, or grief. Especially for those with complex trauma or dissociative experiences, these inner parts can feel disconnected, misunderstood, or in conflict. I help clients explore and build relationships with all aspects of themselves, recognizing that each part developed for a reason—even the ones that feel painful or unwanted. No part is wrong; every part is trying to help you survive.

I specialize in working with adult survivors of trauma, including clients with DID / OSDD and survivors of ritual abuse who may be living with fragmented memory, internal protectors, or high levels of internal distress. I understand how trauma, identity, and community exclusion can layer together and complicate healing—and I hold space for all of it. As a queer therapist, I bring cultural humility and lived understanding to my work with LGBTQ+ clients, including those facing systemic oppression, family estrangement, and gender dysphoria. 

My therapeutic stance is deeply relational. You can expect a warm, collaborative environment where curiosity is welcomed and shame is met with compassion. I strive to offer a non-hierarchical relationship where you feel empowered to explore, reflect, and shift at your own pace. I integrate parts work (IFS), trauma-informed ACT, existential therapy, Brainspotting, EMDR, and secular mindfulness practices. Together, we’ll uncover patterns, build self-trust, and create new ways of living that reflect your values. Healing doesn’t mean erasing the past—it means living more freely alongside it.

All modalities are very effective in treating traumas.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a form of psychotherapy that has been successful in helping people who suffer from trauma, anxiety, panic, disturbing memories, nightmares, etc. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (such as eye movements or tapping) while the client attends to memories and triggers to decrease or eliminate emotional distress connected to the memory.

Parts Work Therapy is an approach that helps individuals understand and heal from trauma by recognizing and working with the different “parts” of themselves that hold various emotions, memories, and coping strategies.

It is based on the idea that the mind naturally organizes itself into different aspects, or parts, especially in response to overwhelming experiences. These parts may hold pain, fear, or protective roles, and therapy helps integrate them into a more cohesive sense of self.

Grounded in the theory of structural dissociation, parts work is a non-pathologizing approach. It views symptoms as expressions of divided parts—not as signs of a flawed self, but as strategies shaped by trauma.

Dissociative disorders involve a disconnection and lack of continuity between thoughts, memories, surroundings, actions, and identity. They often stem from trauma and can manifest in various forms such as amnesia, fugue states, and identity fragmentation. Treatments include phases of establishing safety, processing traumatic memories, and integration or functional integration of identity parts.

Brainspotting is a somatic therapy that helps clients access the subcortical (non-verbal) part of the brain, where trauma is typically stored. According to the creator of Brainspotting, David Grand, “Where you look affects how you feel.” Since our eyes give us access to the subcortical brain, Brainspotting uses the visual field as a way to help release stored memories.

Additional Trainings
  • EMDR Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing
    • Michelle Gottlieb, PsyD, MFT, LPCC
    • Curtis Rouanzin, PhD
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Informed
    • Richard C. Schwartz, PhD
  • Survivors of Domestic & Intimate Partner Violence
    • Susan Holt PsyD
  • Kink Affirming Care
    • Ferris Oxide
  • Polyamory & Non-Monogamy
    • Alex Blake, AMFT
  • Bisexuality: Not Queer Enough
    • Rebecca Haws, AMFT
  • Competent, Affirming Practice with Older Lesbian and Gay Adults
    • American Psychological Association
    • Jennifer Hillman, PsyD & Gregory Hinrichsen, LMFT
  • Affirmative Care with Transgender / Gender Diverse Youth
    • American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
    • Daran Shipman, LMFT
  • ASAM Modules I & II      
    • The Change Companies
    • Alyssa A. Forcehimes, PhD
  • Brainspotting Level 1
  • University of the West – Master of Arts in Psychology, Marriage & Family Therapy
  • San Francisco State University – Bachelor of Arts in Philosophy
  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)

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