Trauma through an IFS Lens
September 16, 2024

Understanding Trauma through the Internal Family Systems Model

Internal Family Systems (IFS) theory is a therapeutic approach that views the mind as consisting of different “parts” or subpersonalities, each with its own emotions, beliefs, and roles. When explaining trauma using IFS, you can consider trauma as the result of certain parts of a person becoming overwhelmed and stuck in extreme emotions or beliefs due to past experiences.

These parts might try to protect the person from further harm, but in doing so, they can inadvertently cause distress and dysfunction. Through IFS therapy, individuals work to identify, understand, and heal these wounded parts, promoting internal harmony and emotional healing.

For example, a traumatic event might lead to the emergence of a protective “Manager” part that attempts to control situations and prevent vulnerability to avoid future harm. Another part, the “Exile,” holds the pain and emotions associated with the traumatic event. The Managers and Exiles may interact in ways that cause distress, such as excessive anxiety or emotional numbness.

IFS therapy involves helping individuals develop a relationship with their parts, understanding their intentions, and creating a safe space for them to express their concerns. The therapist helps the individual access their Self, which provides a non-judgmental and compassionate perspective. Through this process, one can begin to unburden and heal their wounded parts.

It’s important to note that IFS is just one of many therapeutic approaches to understanding and addressing trauma. Its emphasis on acknowledging and working with different internal parts can provide valuable insights into the complexities of trauma and the ways it affects an individual’s thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.

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